My Birthdays Are The Worst Days

For most, a birthday is a day to be anticipated, filled with vibrant colors, and always assumed to be a day of joy. But for others, it’s a painful reminder of a life that feels like it’s a curse more than a blessing. “My Birthdays Are The Worst Days”

“Happy Birthday to you” The song repeats in all lines, Happy, the word repeated in a song they say is mine. But the first words speaks lies 4 times. Abirthday is known as a celebration of life. A celebration is defined as “the action of marking one's pleasure at an important event or occasion”. But what if the event isnt one that can produce pleasure. When negative emotions are what’s thought of when you think of yourself, then a day remembering the start of it all is not one that brings pleasure. It brings the opposite, and amplifies it, knowing that most people are excited for such a reminder to come. What was meant to be your best day is now the worst.

You can never tell who feels a certain way about anything. It is never assured no matter how beloved this occasion or thing may be for you. The weight of one’s struggle is often much heavier than the positive times they’ve experienced. It can make their favorite thing become despised. It’s not something that can be well understood based of only speaking of it, but I hope I have made some understand those feelings just a little better, to not group everyone’s emotions into one but realize that everyone is entitled to feel how they would like to feel, becomes there’s a million reasons why it may have become that way.